January 2nd 2023
Happy New Year!
We've had a another lovely week in the temple and then another celebration on the weekend. We are just getting so attached to these missionaries that it is making it more difficult to think of leaving them to go home. What a precious treasure they have been and what a abundance of love we have been able to enjoy with each one of them.
We had a delightful time at our New Year's Eve party. Everyone brought finger food and then we played games and laughed and ran to the bathroom cause we're old and had babies and would almost pee our pants laughing. (at least I did)
You may ask, what are the blessings and benefits of going on a senior mission? ...thanks for asking, I'm happy to tell you!
Not in any order of importance: You feel like you are contributing to something much bigger than yourself and your agenda. Serving in any capacity with the right attitude of being grateful to serve contributes to the building of the Kingdom of God on the earth but setting aside 6, 12, 18, or 24 months to completely focus all of your energies, desires and interests to the cause of Christ can be life changing and promote character growth that won't come in any other way. Which while building character and overcoming weaknesses there are bumps and bad days along the way, when those happen, you can know THE WHY you are living and working on a mission is because you love God and Jesus and you want to help them.
You get to have a plethora of sweet, tender experiences. Not that normal life doesn't have sweet and tender experiences, but when you are on a mission they appear in all different ways and unexpected times almost daily probably because you are conditioned to look for them because you are focusing on building the Lord's Kingdom and not concerned about your other life. We call them "mission miracles" They can be as small as having a Spanish speaking ordinance worker in the right place at the right time. Or being in a certain place in the temple to happen to see a friend that lives across the country and haven't seen for years. Or feeling so tired but yet, the minute you walk through the temple doors you are infused with energy and a sense of well being. Or watching a group of disabled youth perform baptisms, feeling in awe of their purity and goodness. Or just watching and experiencing the workings of the temple and having everything always work out even when you're worried that we don't have enough workers to make it function smoothly. You know and feel the Lord is in charge and cares about the details of each and every person.
Another blessing is feeling peace about your children and grandchildren. That they have an extra layer of protection while you are gone. Often you are missing them and special events but you can pray and receive confidence that it's just for a small moment and all we'll be well.
Blessing of "heart relationships" Not that you don't have these at home but the love and deep friendships you are privileged to develop in such a short amount of time should probably be in the miracle section. You are thrown together and work with people you would never have met and you feel such honor to know them and feel of their love of the Savior and of His work and you watch them as they work through their own challenges and it is just a beautiful, wonderful thing. This is one of the hardest things about missions is you have to leave these people that you have grown to love comforted by the fact that we have all sorts of ways to stay connected and we get to go home to people we already dearly love and have missed.
Another benefit I already alluded to was that you will discover challenges and weaknesses you didn't know about and really wouldn't identify staying in your same surroundings. Working closely with different people, different living spaces, different responsibilities, limited options and choices of how you spend your time. Being on a fairly strict schedule and being obligated to that schedule. All these things and more will cause weaknesses and strengths to show up and hopefully will help you build a more Christlike character. It's a brilliant plan and opportunity created by our Father in Heaven to help us be all that He wants and knows we can be. I'm not saying missionaries come home as Saints but it's a great tutorial in that direction.
One more blessing is that your relationship with your Father in heaven, your Savior and the Holy Ghost is enlarged, enhanced and strengthened. As your character is being built and your weaknesses and strengths are identified, it is only Them that you have to truly rely on and help you. They may direct you to other sources but Their counsel, correction and direction is deeply valued and absolutely critical in any change or growth you experience. The simple fact that we can repent, because of the Atonement of Christ, should surely be in the miracle section. How grateful I am for Them and for the deeper relationship I feel I have developed with Them because of this experience.
The very photogenic Nauvoo temple
Critters making tons of mounds above the ground
One of the critters...possibly....but not anymore.....
if you get my drift.....
Four men on the couch! The men won 2 out of 3.
We women were so happy to win at all!
There was much dancing and rejoicing!
Playing Heads Up
This may have been "giraffe"
This may have been "shocked" It was just such a fun evening!
We so enjoy every one of these people!